What to Look for in a Great Business Coach
Before you engage anyone to work with your business, do one thing.
Ask around. Not on Google. Not on their website. In your network.
Talk to people who have actually worked with them and achieved something real on the other side of it. A polished website tells you someone can afford a good designer. A glowing testimonial page tells you they know how to ask for reviews. Neither of those things tells you whether they can sit across the table from you and give you the honest commercial advice your business actually needs.
Results tell you that. References tell you that. The experience of someone you trust who has been through it tells you that.
This is how I have built every professional relationship that has mattered in more than 35 years in business. And it is the standard I would encourage every woman to apply when choosing a business coach.
Testimonials are a good place to start. Your network is better.
Why the Right Coach Changes Everything
A great business coach is not a cheerleader. She is not there to make you feel good about decisions you have already made. She is there to help you make better ones.
Every action you take inside a well-run coaching relationship is targeted, with a clear intended outcome. There is no guesswork, no wasted time, no expensive experimentation. You move faster, you decide with more clarity, and you build with more confidence because you have someone in your corner who has done this before and has no emotional stake in flattering you.
The right coach will push you into territory that is uncomfortable precisely because that is where your growth is. She will be honest when honesty is what your business needs, even when it is not what you want to hear. And she will hold you to every commitment you make, because accountability without consequence is just a conversation.
That is what great coaching delivers. The question is how to find it.
What to Look for: The Non-Negotiables
Proven commercial experience
Everyone is a coach nowadays. Some have built and sold businesses. Some have led teams, managed P&Ls, and navigated the real commercial pressure of running something that had to perform. Others have completed a short course and launched a website.
The difference matters enormously when you are sitting across the table from someone and asking for advice that will affect your revenue, your team, and your future.
Ask directly: what have you built? What have you turned around? What does your own business look like and how does it perform? A coach who cannot answer those questions with specifics is not yet qualified to answer them for yours.
Ask for references, not just testimonials. Talk to people who have actually worked with them. Ask what changed, what was hard, and what they would do differently. That conversation will tell you more than any website ever could.
A methodology, not just an opinion
Good coaches have a framework. They work to a structured process that produces consistent results across different clients and different industries. They can explain how they work, what the engagement looks like, and how outcomes are measured.
If a coach cannot articulate their methodology clearly, they are likely improvising. That might occasionally produce good results. It will not produce them consistently, and consistency is what you are paying for.
Honesty over harmony
The most valuable thing a coach brings to your business is the ability to tell you the truth without the filter of a personal relationship. Your family, your business partner, your accountant: all of them have a stake in your decisions that shapes what they are willing to say to you.
A great coach has no such stake. Her job is to get the best commercial outcome for your business, and sometimes that means telling you something you do not want to hear. If a coach only ever agrees with you, find another coach.
A professional standard you would be proud to match
Look at how a coach shows up publicly. Their brand, their content, their reputation, the quality of their communication, and the calibre of their client base. These are not superficial signals. They are evidence of the standard this person operates to.
If their own business does not reflect the level you are trying to reach, they cannot credibly help you get there.
Access to a broader ecosystem
The best coaching relationships do not exist in isolation. A great coach connects you to a wider network of professionals, peers, and resources that extend the value of the relationship well beyond the sessions themselves.
Ask what else comes with the coaching. What community, what tools, what support structure sits around the one-to-one work. A coach who operates as a standalone with nothing around them is limiting the return on your investment.
What Makes a FEMPIRE Coach Different
At FEMPIRE, we do not accept coaches who simply want to coach. We certify coaches who are ready to deliver commercial outcomes for serious women in business.
Every FEMPIRE Certified Coach has real entrepreneurial experience. They understand the commercial landscape women navigate because they have navigated it themselves. They are trained in a rigorous methodology built around business performance, financial confidence, and measurable results. And they are held to a standard of honesty, professionalism, and accountability that reflects the brand they represent.
We coach the whole woman, because who you are as a leader is inseparable from how your business performs. But our goal is always commercial. A business that is profitable, sustainable, and built to serve your life rather than consume it.
That is the standard we set for our coaches. It is also the standard you should be applying when you choose yours.
If you would like to speak to clients who have worked with a FEMPIRE Coach before you decide, reach out. We are happy to put you in touch. We have nothing to hide and everything to prove through the people we have worked with.
Ready to take the next step?
If what you have read here sounds like the standard you want to build your own coaching business on, the FEMPIRE Certification Program is where that starts. We are looking for experienced women who are ready to coach at a commercial level and want the methodology, the credentials, and the community to do it properly.
If you are ready to work with a FEMPIRE Coach and want to find the right fit for your business, we will ask a few straightforward questions and match you with the coach best placed to help you move forward.
Trudy Heins, CEO and Master Coach, FEMPIRE
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As the owner of Fempire and founder of Trudy Heins Business Coaching, The Holistic Health Hive, and Woman Friday, Trudy’s mission is to help women create strong, strategic, and financially resilient businesses, the kind that support the life you really want.
With over 36 years in business and finance including 30 years as a Certified Financial Planner. Trudy has built and sold multiple businesses, led high-performing national sales teams, and coached hundreds of women to achieve lasting success.
She knows what it takes to go from idea to income and from coach to company owner.




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